I have been arrested for three weeks exactly so i should be able to drop my character but when i click on the link it takes me to a page that says: You do not have access to view this page.
I'm in a similar situation as you but not reached 3 weeks yet. My advice would be to just wait another day as there may still be a few hours to go before it becomes active.
You need to create an existing account, then post a new bug detailing your problem and a developer will take care of it as soon as possible. The developers tend to use the bug base far more than they ever check this forum, so that is likely the fastest way.
For a temporary fix you can also try mailing assistants@swcombine.com, but no guarantee on how quickly that will accomplish anything.