im not sure whether im doing this wrong or or the other guy is doing this wrong but im trying to enter a space station and apparently the faction has granted me access but there is no option to enter, i am on the grid where you can go into sublight or hyper... do you have to be orbiting or in the atomspehere to enter??

Same square as the station. right on top of it.

“Same square as the station. right on top of it.

- Kyria Wild
 ”

ok well its definitely he has no idea how to give me access i have been on the same square this whole time and i have no access

Have you been given access to dock in the station, or for your person to enter the station?

He may just intend for you to walk in, rather than dock your ship in (if there's not enough room or whatever). There's no real reason to dock your ship anyway, unless you want to get stuck there. Have you tried walking aboard the station using Postion > Travel?