is there a forum or somthing where you can just talk cause unless you feel like RPing in SWC there does not seem to be a place to just TALK as in not as your char as in you RL self
What are you talking about, Sio? Ellias is referring to the Message Centre forum - the first one that loads when you hit the "Forum" link at the top of the page. Near the bottom of that forum are a number of more general forums, including places to discuss SW, games, and general topics not falling into the other categories. Other than getting on IRC, this is the closest you will find.
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