I've often said that this game is what you make of it. If you find things for yourself to do, keep yourself busy, find people to talk to and things to get involved in, you'll have a great time. If you wait for someone to give you tasks and tell you how to have fun, you're going to quit out of boredom.
White Scenarios are great if you're into roleplay. IRC can be amusing if you like to chat with random people and get to know the community. Getting involved in the various Suggestions forums and teams can be a nice way to expand and help shape the game, once you get familiar with how things work.
____________"May the Grace of Ara go with you, and His Vengeance be wrought upon your enemies."
Only fools and children dream of heroes.